I'm an atheist, I always have been. As I've got older my lack of faith has increased, but so has my tolerance.
I used to have a special hatred for religion, especially the Christian church as an establishment. I still have no belief in god, and can't for the life of me work out how otherwise intelligent people can believe in something that there is absolutely no proof of. Whilst also being amazed that anyone can believe in any religion that teaches intolerance and guilt, I can appreciate the joy and comfort it brings to many people.
I have friends who are believers, one of them is even a vicar. Sue was until recently an associate vicar in a busy church in Sheffield, but whilst I was away she was promoted to Vicar of the church (the previous vicar retired). She'd been unsure whether she wanted the position, and worried that she wouldn't do the job well. I have no doubt she'll make a fantastic vicar.
I'd joked with her that I would go to her 'institution', and probably be the only atheist in the room!! As it was I sat at the back with the local councillor (also a non believer)! I enjoyed listening to the singing, and as usual in these situations, a lot of people watching!
Sue looked so happy, my only fear is that she won't get any rest or breaks - seems to me that vicars are never off duty.
